EP 348: Reader Question – How do I get my drinking partner to try sober sex?

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What do you do when you’ve stopped drinking but your partner still does? When their drinking is a turnoff and the taste of alcohol on their breath grosses you out? How do you dive into this difficult conversation with someone you love? Do you rip off the bandaid and just go for it or is there a better strategy? Annie Grace offers her thoughts on a courageous reader’s vulnerable question.

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Highlights of How To Try Sober Sex

  • Sober sex is great, but sober sex when you’re with somebody who’s drinking is not so great.
  • Sex as a conversation, in general, is probably one of the most intense and vulnerable conversations you can have with your partner
  • What do you want the outcome to be? How do you want to feel and how do you want them to feel?
  • Encourage curiosity not defensiveness when you try sober sex
  • Architect a conversation that would bring the two of you closer
  • The best types of conversations are the most playful types of conversations
  • Make sure the good points outweigh the bad
  • Be intentional

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